Day: September 3, 2026

I still remember sitting in my car in a hospital parking lot, googling “fibromyalgia blood test” on my phone with shaky hands, hoping there was some simple lab result that would finally explain why my whole body felt like it had been hit by a truck every single morning. I’d already been through two rheumatologists, a neurologist, and more vials of blood than I could count. I just wanted one number on a piece of paper that said “yes, this is what’s wrong with you.” I didn’t get that. And…

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A few years back, I remember sitting on the bathroom floor after a shower because standing up to dry off felt like too much work. That was a rough stretch with fibromyalgia, and somewhere in the middle of the fatigue and the pain flares, I noticed my clothes fitting differently. Tighter. Nothing about my eating had really changed, but the scale kept creeping up anyway. If you’re dealing with fibromyalgia and weight gain at the same time, I want you to know right away — you’re not imagining it, and…

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I still remember the morning my sister called me crying because she couldn’t get out of bed — not because she was tired, but because every single muscle in her body felt like it had been run over. That was the start of a two-year journey of doctor visits, dead ends, and finally a fibromyalgia diagnosis. Once you’re in that world, the first question everyone asks is the same one she asked me: “why did this happen?” So I went down the rabbit hole trying to understand the causes of…

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I still remember the morning I couldn’t lift my coffee mug without my wrist screaming at me. Not “sore from the gym” pain. A weird, deep, all-over ache that made me feel like I’d been hit by a truck in my sleep. That was my introduction to fibromyalgia, and it took almost two years of doctor visits, blood tests, and a lot of “it’s probably just stress” before I got an actual diagnosis. So when people ask me what the worst symptoms of fibromyalgia really are, I don’t answer with…

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I still remember the day my aunt sat at her kitchen table, staring at a stack of medical bills, and asked me, “Do you think I could actually get disability for this fibromyalgia mess?” She’d been dealing with the pain, the fog, the exhaustion that never really goes away, for almost six years by then. And honestly? I didn’t know the answer either. So I dove in, helped her fill out paperwork, sat through two denial letters with her, and eventually watched her get approved on the third try. That…

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I still remember sitting in a rheumatologist’s waiting room years ago, scrolling through forums on my phone, trying to figure out why my body felt like it had been hit by a truck every single morning. Someone in a Facebook support group swore fibromyalgia was “basically like lupus.” Another person said it was “all in your head.” I walked out of that appointment more confused than when I walked in, and the question that kept nagging at me was simple: is fibromyalgia autoimmune, or is something else going on entirely?…

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